Wanna Escape the World with Me?
I'm trying to build a happy life of two people
who appreciate a simple life.
I know it's a long shot, but I'm looking for something
very unique, and I hope it's you.
Simplicity
I dress very simply, and I live the same way. I’m not into fashion, tattoos, jewelry, or heavy makeup. I’m drawn to a natural, simple style. A warm smile and a good personality matter far more to me than appearance.
So What Really Matters?
I've lived a very interesting life, and I spend most of my time learning new skills.
But it's more boring than you think...
People often think my life is very exciting, but it’s actually quite boring... and I like it that way.
I spend most of my time alone, practicing and studying. I usually choose one skill and spend years working on it every day.
I don’t go out much, I don’t drink alcohol, I don’t smoke, and I don’t use drugs. I’m very much a homebody. I enjoy a quiet, focused life. I’m happiest building things, learning, and creating at home. This way of living isn’t for everyone, but it’s right for me.
I'd like a partner who is also a homebody, someone who loves nothing more than free time create.
About Me
My name is Mike, and I live in Appleton, Wisconsin, USA. A quiet town of about 70,000 people. It's really beautiful here, but gets very cold during winter.
I enjoy simple things. I like watching movies, playing video games, trying different foods, and writing.
I’ve always liked the phrase, “Only boring people get bored.” There is so much to do in the world! You can draw, paint, grow plants, learn a new sport, play an instrument, swim, learn a language, start a business, etc. There is always something to explore. And you don't need to be an expert at any of it. Just play and enjoy!
To me, boredom is not a problem. It’s an opportunity. I’m happiest with someone who sees life this way too.
Testimonials from
Mike's Friends
Matt (Friend)
“Mike is one of the most unique people I know. He’s strong enough to be a pro athlete, logical enough to work in tech, creative enough to be an artist, and has the patience and explanation skills of a teacher. I'm honored to be his friend.”
Jessica (Friend)
“Mike lives with purpose. He’s not chasing trends or outside approval. He knows who he is and what he wants, and he builds his life around that. That’s something I deeply respect. Also, he is super funny 😂”
Ben (Friend)
"Anyone who ends up with Mike will be very lucky. He’s a kind and gentle person who truly values the people in his life. He gives real attention, affection, and respect, and he doesn’t take relationships for granted. Treat him right, or I will hunt you down! jk"
Must Love Dogs
I have a cute little doggy named Bingo. She goes everywhere with me and I involve her in everything. We ride bikes, eat, and hike together. She's the sweetest little pup in the world.
The Green Flags
These are some things people tend to like about me
✅ I'm very mild mannered, don't get angry, or yell
✅ I'm a good conversationalist and can chat about anything
✅ I'm very caring, considerate, and affectionate
✅ I'm very easy to make happy
The Dealbreakers
I'm going to be very honest here. These are the main reasons why women eventually don't want to be with me.
❌ I don't want to have children
❌ I am not religious or political
❌ I don't like living in big cites and prefer a very quiet life
❌ I don't care about social status and just keep to myself
Why are these things important to me?
Of course, I would be happy to tell you more if we connect. But honestly, the reasons aren't very important. I don’t believe in trying to convince someone to live a certain way.
- If you love big cities
- Want children
- live a spiritual life
- Be a political activist
- Pursue a corporate career
You should definitely pursue that life. It just isn't the life for me.
I would like someone who wants to join me naturally based on their values, not convincing someone to change.
Are You Still Interested?
I know I have been very specific, and I hope I don't come across as negative. I'm just very serious about what I am looking for, and I don’t want to waste anyone’s time. Finding a life partner is not easy. It takes honesty and clear direction from both people. If you feel that we match, I would be happy to hear from you. Please send:
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2–3 recent photos of yourself
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Where you live
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A short introduction about who you are
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Why you would like to get to know me
I may not be able to reply to every message. If you do not hear back from me within one week, it likely means I do not feel we are the right match. I mean no disrespect. I simply want to be honest and fair with everyone. I wish you the best, no matter what. Thank you so much for taking the time to visit my profile.